Men and Women are two eminent pillars of life. However, the thinking and psychology of both differ.
By and large, men are more status-conscious, women are more emotional and loving in nature. You may have heard about the term trophy wife. Trophy wife, arm candy, human jewelry—whatever term you use, this particular phenomenon is one that nearly all men subscribe to.
Yes, you might have come across sexy and hot model looking women holding arms of a man who is much inferior to her looks.
However, this is what it is meant to be, the status and recognition symbol. Wife is the partner for life and is the first step to name and fame in the world.
The problem with most women is that they keep assuming that men have the same beliefs about relationships as they do and that’s why they end up very confused.
As said earlier men care about their status. They display big cars and expensive watches, big houses.
This show-off makes beautiful women just fit the bill. Almost like an accessory to complete the look.
Why do men desire a trophy wife?
There can be a lot of reasons why men would like to have a trophy wife, a wife that he can display at every place who is gorgeous and good looking. All men desire beautiful women.
They love to flaunt their wives much like their sparkling two-seater and in return love the gratification of making other men around them jealous.
The first look reaction
When men introduce their gorgeous wife to friends and colleagues and they are simply in awe of her beauty, Men tend to get a certain high from that reaction. Seeing the friends and colleagues jaw drop brings a certain kick and a sense of achievement.
Taking along a trophy wife to a professional event is likely to make a boss sit up and take notice. A guy who can have a woman like that on his arm must be a real go-getter, a charmer of the highest order.
It’s a guaranteed way to get yourself noticed the next time the promotions are handed out.
When you walk into the room with your trophy wife, people keep guessing as to what you have in order to get her.
These gorgeous ladies are a high maintenance proposition and their beholder must hold a hefty bank balance to keep them happy.
It is seen that usually young beautiful women are draped around the arm of old men. This happens because men think that a young lady can revive their old lives.
She rejuvenates the dull life of the old man and makes him feel happy, always.
Their bank balance can balance the imbalance in bedrooms.
Trophy wives are aware of what they are and therefore would happily compromise on opinions. Consequently, they are unlikely to challenge and criticize your decisions and opinions in a manner that other woman may.
It’s no coincidence that many men who marry trophy wifes end up with different women later in their lives.
It’s exhausting, expensive and mentally draining to manage a trophy wife—with no real guarantee that she’ll stay with you in the end.
Some men, however, still love the prestige that a beautiful woman affords. If that’s you, then go ahead and search out your particular piece of human jewelry.
Just make sure you are ready for the pitfalls too.
BY SWATI ARORA, DKODING MEDIA