Relationships are difficult to manage all on their own, being an empath can be a tasking thing for you. While feeling and thinking about everything that your partner is thinking and feeling.
Being together and building a life as two individuals can be difficult all on its own. Dealing with all the problems your partner is facing can be even tougher.
But being an empath, like anything else, has two sides to it. But first things first.
What is an empath?
The word can confuse a lot of people. Is it being empathetic, as in being able to put yourself in other people’s shoes? To feel what they’re feeling as if it were happening to you. This is pretty standard for every empathetic person you could possibly know.
Being an empath in a relationship entails the same things but with more intensity. You feel so much for your partner that you pick up on the things they are feeling without them ever telling you.
But as difficult as it may be to deal with extra emotions, it is also easier for you to understand people.
You can easily tell a lie from a truth. You feel everything so deeply, you can see through your partner.
The Blessing in disguise…
Your debates and arguments are going to be more expressive. You will make sure what you want to convey goes through exactly how you mean it.
You won’t be yelling for the sake of yelling, you will relate to your partner.
You will be able to make an argument with a reason that stands to better both of you, even if your partner doesn’t know it.
You feel what they feel:
They don’t have to tell you how they feel. That’s because you’re an empath. You feel it as they feel it and you get time to give a relaxed reaction.
Being an empath, there will never be a time when your partner goes without good advice from you and a lot of love.
This also means you can easily avoid upsetting them and show them exactly how much you care.
The longer you have been together, more you understand what they feel and what the reason might be.
Your empathy goes a long way in making them feel better and you will have a really close bonding.
You talk more and more about the meaningful things in life. They share with you; you with them.
You have ecstatic moments together:
As an empath, you feel all the happier when they are.
When you have happy moments together, you feel happy because you make your partner happy.
You feel how happy they are. The fact that you are the cause behind it, if so, makes you ecstatic.
This is the holy grail of pros to being an empath in a relationship. When you empathize. You feel what they feel, you understand your partner on a level that nobody else could.
The fact that you understand your partner so well makes you the most attractive person. It also enriches the understanding you two share.
If you understand what I mean, you know it is true. If you are an empath, you are going to be great in bed.
Your bonding and trust building will eventually lead you both to a point where you have no inhibitions.
You will become so comfortable that you can be whoever you want to be in bed. However kinky, however naughty, and dirty as you wish.
Sometimes you may wish that you were not in the place you are because of the heaviness of the emotions you bear.
This doesn’t reduce how being an empath makes you a better partner and an overall well-rounded person.