Fellow females! Have you ever been on a date with really hot guy or girl and after you go home, make out, start to undress, get it on and suddenly, someone or something a family emergency, an important call from your boss interrupts everything, forcing you to stop whatever you are doing and then you are left with this uncomfortable, throbbing feeling all over your body particularly down there? Blue ball is pain or aching that results from sexual frustration, or not ejaculating after a prolonged state of sexual arousal.
Some people think that blue balls is a myth and some misogynists think that female blue balls is just a hallucination of the female population, who keep running their mouths about equality. And this, really begs the question, can females get blue balls?
Analyzing female blue parts
To give you a better understanding of how the phenomenon came to be, let’s take a look at its etymological predecessor, the “blue balls.” Scientifically, it is described as the vasocongestion or fluid congestion in the testicles accompanied by testicular pain.
It is caused by prolonged sexual arousal or interruption of ejaculation and can be relieved by sexual release.
For women, it is quite different. Women don’t usually complain of pain; however, there is a heavy feeling in the pelvic area when sexual stimulation is interrupted before reaching a climax.
So what happens when girls get blue balls or blue beans?
Again, before tackling what happens during female blue balls; let’s take a peek at male blue balls, for a bit. Blue balls occur when ejaculation is prevented or interrupted. Before this can happen, semen needs to be produced in the seminal vesicles during stimulation.
Those are located inside the pelvis, a little behind the urethra and the prostate.
Contrary to idiotic belief, the testicles do not carry the semen. It actually contains the somniferous tubules, which produce the sperm, and the epididymis, where the sperm matures. So, it is not true that men are walking around carrying two bags of jizz – they are technically carrying two bags of sperm.
Also, blue balls do not happen because the testes are backed up with semen. The reason why they look enlarged and sometimes have a bluish tinge is because of the blood that accumulated in the vessels during stimulation. The pain that they feel in their scrotum is present because of the increase in pressure.
It’s the same feeling they get when their penis is overstimulated and filled with blood.
As for women, the physiology of blue bean happens in a different type of body part – the clitoris. Female blue balls can’t happen to the ovaries because those organs are not mechanically involved in sexual arousal. Their purpose is purely hormonal.
With women, the discomfort that comes from the interrupted sexual release is due to the same mechanisms that caused it for men – backed up blood in their lady bits. The clitoris is the counterpart of the man’s penile head and shaft. Just like with penises, the clitoris enlarges and fills up with blood when a woman is aroused.
When a woman does not climax, even while they are already aroused, the blood will take a while to dissipate and leave your girly bits feeling heavy, lonely, and uncomfortable.
Is it harmful? Will your bean fall off the sprout?
There are no harmful effects of blue beans or blue balls. It is not a medical emergency unless the blood refuses to dissipate even after an inordinate amount of time. If the clitoris or the penis and balls do not relax or continues to feel pain after an hour, you need to go to the hospital immediately.
There is no much evidence to support that sexual release is the only possible solution to this problem.
This means that it is okay to have a blue bean or blue balls. It su*ks, but at least it is not going to fall off because that is a different medical condition altogether.
This is also why a guy or girl uses blue bean or blue balls as an excuse to convince you to have sex when you don’t want to. If they do think that’s a valid reason, send them to a doctor or a head doctor because you are not a toy to use as they please for their sexual desires.
Don’t be afraid to get blue bean because this is just a part of your adult sexual experience. Take it as a lesson. A lesson that tells you to prepare for any eventuality in the bedroom, be it a premature ejaculation, an amateur sex partner, a neighbor banging on your door during sex, or even an unexpected visit from your parents, who are just passing by.
Blue bean is a part of life. It’s an annoying part of life, but you’ll get over it.