Do you want to get into a woman’s mind and understand what kind of man she finds desirable in bed? Read these steamy ways to get there right now!
For starters, what you need to know is that women can get turned on by some really strange things. And at times, by the most contrasting of ideas and moves!
No style or sex move is a one-fits-all you’ve got to experience. And only experience and communication can help you understand just what arouses a woman and makes you more desirable in bed.
Some ladies like it when men are dominant and assertive in bed, who take control and guide them to the big O!
Other women are turned on when their guy likes to play the more submissive role, lets them take charge and be the dominatrix.
But regardless of those preferences and the confusions, there are a few things that almost always work. And simply make you the most desirable man in bed!
Here are the ways to get way better in bed
Whether you’re just casually dating or you’ve been in a long-term relationship with the same girl for a while, you can do sexy things to her to turn her. And if you’re currently not dating anyone, keeping these turn-ons handy can help you maintain a sexually fulfilling relationship with the ladies in the future!
Women can live for compliments, especially when you say them during particularly vulnerable moments.
As you’re about to have sex with her, we assume you obviously already find her attractive. Don’t keep it all in your mind, and let her know, say it out loud. Be honest and express your thoughts as your eyes wander all over her body. Not only would this turn her on, but it can also boost her self confidence enough to be more adventurous with your sex life.
Making sure she’s comfortable
It can be a bit tough sometimes to tell if a woman is really comfortable with you or if she’s just playing along so you don’t get discouraged. Often, the lack of communication may feel like acceptance to men. But just because she’s not necessarily saying no, doesn’t automatically mean she likes what you’re doing to her.
Just ask the right questions and keep them crisp like, Is this okay? or Can I do this? or Am I being too rough/soft/fast maybe/awkward? By asking this, you can then make her feel comfortable while showing that you’re open to suggestions. And that you’re willing to be guided along being the most desirable man in bed.
A full arsenal of positions
It’s the truth, men who are fit and strong are capable of more strenuous sexual positions than those who are out of shape. You can lift her up, you can indulge in acrobatic positions, and most of all, you’ve got the endurance to top it all off driving her crazy with passion.
However, don’t worry too much, you don’t necessarily need to have a superhero body to be able to pull off a wide range of positions. Just know a tad bit more than the basic missionary, doggy style, spooning and woman on top. That way, when you’ve tried all those positions number of times with your partner, and now you have more options to try out like the wheelbarrow!
Various kissing techniques
Do you remember that one kiss that got you your title as a good kisser back in high school? Well, that’s not going to cut it anymore, buddy. You need more than just one signature kiss to woo your girl, rather types.
You can’t just casually whip out the tongue when you’re just giving her a kiss at the end of the date.
And you can’t just continuously spell alphabets with your tongue when you’re doing some foreplay.
There are tons of different techniques that you could learn when it comes to kissing. Try little bits of playful biting or sucking on her lower lip when you’re getting started with foreplay. We’re sure she’ll be more than happy to practice with you and return favors.
Pay attention to her erogenous zones
Lots of men believe in this: kiss mouth, kiss breasts, penetration. That’s simply just not how you do it! The best way to get her ready for the act is by sensually touching sensitive areas that aren’t her breasts and vagina and teasing her.
The most common erogenous zones for women are the sensitive neck, the back of the ears, her inner thighs and her butt, touch this and she’ll let out a moan. Try to go from a barely-there caress of the finger to a more passionate grab. Don’t be afraid to use your lips, your tongue or even your nose to get her erogenous zones. Make her fully stimulated so she’ll be ready to receive you whole heartedly.
Asking her what her sexual fantasy is
All women have a sexy steamy sexual fantasy, though some are more creative than others. Ask her what hers is and you’ll accomplish two integral things. First, you’ll make her visualize her fantasy in order to tell you about it and feel some kind of way. That can already be a turn on in itself and she’d want to try it.
Second, it shows that you’re interested. And that you just might be up for it and be a part of her fantasy world. She’ll be more than glad you asked, and if your sexual fantasies happen to match, then bingo! You’ve hit the ultimate jackpot!
Her pleasure is a priority
Sex isn’t just a man’s game. It doesn’t end when the man finishes and if it does stop doing it, please. We know some men are fine with their orgasm being optional, and lots of women have gotten used to this over the years. But it really shouldn’t be that way, not now, not ever!
One of the greatest turn on for women is knowing that the man she’s with also equally cares. She wants to know that she’s feeling the pleasure of foreplay and sex.
Now keep these are the sexy ways for you to be the most desirable man in bed and get out there and start practicing your moves!