Getting dumped is one of the worst feelings ever especially when you don’t see it coming. There is no handbook or guide to getting dumped but there are some signs that point towards an impending breakup.
If someone breaks your heart, just punch them in the face. Seriously. Punch them in the face and go get some ice cream.
Being aware of the problems in your relationship is important. If it’s already too late and your man has made up his mind about ending the relationship, you can save face by knowing when and why it’s going to happen.
Happiness comes from the little moments you both share. It comes from appreciating the person you’re with and loving them for their faults and flaws not just their merits.
The key to a happy relationship is being happy. What makes a person happy in a relationship?
When certain criteria established at the start of the relationship stops being fulfilled, someone is bound to jump. Aggression, depression, resentment, and dissatisfaction are only some of the things that lead to break-ups.
Save Your Relationship By Looking Out For These Signs
This requires no explanation. Cheating is one of the dirtiest and bloodiest reasons for a break-up. But cheating is not always about finding an outlet for your repressed sexual needs or boosting a deflated ego. Some people genuinely fall in love with another person while they’re still in a relationship.
The sex isn’t fun anymore
Many relationships end because their sexual chemistry has fizzled out. If a breakup is on the horizon, sparks can either fly or fizzle in your sex life. Spending less and less intimate time together is an easy sign that he’s getting more distant.
Sex? Nah, not today…my tiny toe hurts!Ninja reason to avoid sex
One of you is not ready for commitment
You are about to get dumped if your partner isn’t ready for a commitment. It can lead to a huge gap between you and your partner. Keep in mind that as long as your partner has not committed, it continues to be your decision as to whether to stay in that relationship or move on.
They look happier without you
You’ll notice these changes only if you look hard enough. When you’re with your partner, everything is dull and colorless. When you see them with other people like friends and family, they tend to perk up. It’s the same for you as well. Being happy is an instinctual reaction. You either are or you’re not.
No phone calls
Once upon a time if anything would bug you, you knew whom to reach out to. You knew whom to call and who would come running to your ailment, but now even if you are in a major stuck up situation or handling a disaster all by yourself you would hesitate before calling your partner.
“I’d rather cry to sleep then let him make me cry once more.”
No excitement about achievements
Once upon a time, no matter what you would have achieved, you would have shared it with them, but you do not do that anymore because you know that your growth or loss means nothing to them. You mean nothing to them.
Demand for what you can’t fulfill
It could be an expensive gift or undivided attention, forsaking one’s career and future possibilities. If your partner is forcing you to exercise a choice that is not possible for you to do, so they will simply look for more excuses to fight and to end the relationship.
From talking about every possible minute silly thing to just reverting back with a ‘yes’ or a ‘no,’ you guys have come far. Far away from each other that there are no mutual topics to discuss, nothing to share and nothing to give.
Happiness can come from anywhere…beach, a solo date or just a bunch of cuddly puppies.
The fact that your unresolved fights have poisoned the situation more for you only led to more fights. With so much mistrust, hate, anger, and emotions neither of you know what to do whence distancing permanently seems like the best option.
The relationship is stagnant
No matter what point in the relationship you’re in, there is always room for an upgrade. People need to move forward so they can explore other parts of their relationship. If they don’t, then the only direction you’ll end up moving is backward and away from each other.