The Female Orgasm — 4 Ways To Tell If Your Woman Has Had One

4 Telltale Signs Of A Woman’s Orgasm

You are having sex with your woman, she claims she ‘came’, and you notice all or some of the physical evidence of her experience before she hits the ‘big-O’. But, have you ever wondered if she actually had a climax, or was she just showing what you needed to see?

If this situation seems familiar to you, then we’ll have you know that this article is just for you. A female orgasm is a mystery, just like the beautiful creation of a woman. Although there are a few women who know how to reach for the ‘finish’ line, do their partners usually recognize the signs?

In this article, we have listed down 4 telltale signs of a woman’s orgasm, which can also be referred to by women, who are confused about their orgasms.

1. It’s not just a ‘genital sneeze’

Sex in textbook terms refers to a ‘penis in the vagina’ situation. We have all studied it. We have all done it (I’m talking to you non-virgins). And when your partner orgasms, it feels as if they’ve just sneezed … from their vagina. But it’s more than that.

Indulging in coitus doesn’t mean the pleasure is only felt around the genitalia. Orgasms don’t even have to involve that region. The orgasmic energy that women undergo during this time, encompasses every inch of their body, where she won’t necessarily end up reaching for the ‘climax’.

It just means that each individual has a certain set of sexual wiring that is unique to them. And, for most people, their sexual wiring needs to be stimulated and pleased in all those different areas including psychological desires, needs, and multiple sensory organs.

G-spot, vagina, clitoris, nipple, and energetic are just some of the orgasms women are blessed with.

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2. Physical reactions are a telling

Here are some of the physical reactions you can look out for.

Skin looks flushed

When people orgasm, they notice their skin on the stomach, chest, neck, and face, looks red/pink and feels sensitive and slightly warm when touched. This happens because of the blood flowing through all the blood vessels in the body. When this phenomenon occurs, it is considered an ‘orgasmic flush’ or a ‘sex flush’.

Muscles contracts or spasms

Women who have experienced an orgasm strongly claim that they go through muscle contractions during their orgasm, or immediately after having one. The contractions can happen in multiple regions of your body including muscles in the stomach, vaginal walls, legs, thighs, and bums.

Although these reactions can be faked, some women (and also men) who orgasm, go through mild tremors or spasms that is felt throughout their body, which can be harder to fake orgasm, but not impossible.

Heart rate increases

As women inch closer to an orgasm, they take shorter, quicker breaths and their heart rate shoot up, drastically. And after their climax, the heart rate slows down and goes back to normal, while their breathing gets deeper. This whole ordeal of returning to normal takes between 5 to 10 minutes.

Keep in mind that this part can be faked too. But, if it comes paired with the other physical factors of orgasm, then, be sure that your woman just had her orgasm.

Sleep kicks in

You feel relaxed, happy, and light after an orgasm. Similarly, you feel sleepy after having an orgasm too. So having an orgasm before you hit the sack can help you in attaining that much-needed beauty sleep. It’s science, after all!

You can thank your oxytocin for this one.

3. How about asking her?

If you don’t ask, you will never know. It’s as simple as that. It doesn’t matter how well you know the physical signs of an orgasm if it can be faked. Female ejaculation isn’t a common occurrence among. But, when a woman ejaculates, it is only just a few droplets of it, and it can go unnoticed by the partner.

If both partners are comfortable seeing each other naked and having sex, you should be comfortable talking about sex as well!

You should ask her whether she ‘came’, what needs to be done to make her cum, etc.

4. She exclaims!

When a woman says she is cumming, you better believe that she, in fact, finally experiencing her climax.

Although having an orgasm is the greatest feeling ever (among other things), it doesn’t have to always end with that, while having sex.

As Ralph Waldo Emerson famously quoted —

It’s not the destination. It’s about the journey.

Your woman’s orgasm has to be so intense and that it lasts so long — she has to yell out ‘I can’t stop cumming’ — Enjoy the never-ending pleasure folks!

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