Do you ever feel kind of yawn-y in your relationship? Don’t freak out.
It’s completely okay to feel bored with things sometimes.
Most of us usually get bored with everyday routine, because we are human and we crave variety.
But that doesn’t mean you’ll go on dating from one person to another every time you get bored. And it also doesn’t mean you need to get stuck there, you just need to figure out why you’re bored and do something about it.
Here are a few simple signs that can help you find out why you’re bored in love to avoid them for a better romantic relationship-
The daily routine
Structure and schedules are a great way to keep things in order, but this might decrease excitement in your love life. To keep things interesting, plan on something thrilling that doesn’t feel like a chore and more of an exciting thing to do. Plan a vacation to someplace exotic; challenge each other to try something out.
Step out of your comfort zone and try new things out.
The fragile foundation
It is suggested to take enough time when two lovers fall in love. Falling in love too quickly or rushing upon things like- moving in together or proposing to one another too soon can build a romance on shaky grounds.
Always take your time before jumping to conclusions and making decisions.
Sex is boring
Yes, it is true. No matter how great the couple is in bed it is possible for sex to get monotonous after a few years. Maybe you just need to turn things around and spice up your sex life a bit.
Talk about the simplest little thing with your partner. Get into the details even if you think they’re unimportant. Open up to each other about whatever you feel- your fears, your desires or the mundane things like the weather, the food or your day at work.
It’s the little things that actually count.
Too much time together with your partner could sometimes be claustrophobic. Give them their space and don’t be afraid to ask for your space too. Getting some time apart could actually make you guys feel excited to talk to each other.
You miss being single
It may just be a passing phase but it sure is a scary place to be. And getting out of it seems like an endless loop of a black hole. You need learn to deal with it. You can do the same things you’re your partner you did when you were single or do them when your partner isn’t around, it that makes you feel great. (Just don’t cheat okay?)
Do you sometimes find your partner really annoying. It can be the way they behave or react to something, being utterly lazy, expecting you to do all the chores or leaving the toilet seat up *rolls eyes*
Well, you need to be upfront about it and confront them. Almost all your problems get solved with an open communication.
You expect a lot
Expecting too much can lead to dissapointments.
It is never a good thing to do, so, you better avoid it. We should drastically lower our expectations from our partners if we ever want to feel truly pleased in a romantic relationship. Let them surprise you.
Someone else excites you
This can happen all the time. It can be your colleague at work or that guy you met in the park or subway the other day. You find it easier to open up about your issues to them than your partner or find them extremely attractive.
Well, you better avoid an affair and cheating on your partner. Just be open and honest to your partner.
Giving up on your personal goals
You give up on your life and your goals just to spend more time with your partner. Avoid that stage. You don’t need to sacrifice your job or turn down a big offer for your partner. If they’re caring enough they’ll realise your needs and aspirations and support you in every way.
The spark should eternally burn just as brightly as it did on the first day!