The game of love is one that has evolved through the years as humanity has continued to exist. The rules are dictated by our psychology, biology, and evolution.
Who knew that love is not much more than calculations going on in our brains. Beyond how we talk to and behave around somebody is more about how we are genetically wired.
12 Laws of attraction
Hot =/= Attractive
Being hot is definitely an advantage in the dating scene but being hot without anything that engages the person in front of you is almost useless.
The human brain has a very short attention span. Therefore, it only makes sense that our brain is automatically attracted to intriguing people rather than those who have nothing but a good body.
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The time it takes to attract someone or be attracted to them is very short, 30 seconds to be exact.
Instantaneous attractions happen because people judge you by how you look the moment you walk into a room. You cannot change that but you can be prepared.
According to a scientific study, our brains make astonishingly fast decisions for the long-term. This may vary from person to person but is a fairly accurate outcome of attraction.
The attractive colour – Red
If you want to attract the attention of other people, red is the colour to wear. It will work on your current date too.
Red lips or red shoes, red is a color that related to all things relationships – passion, lust, romance, and fertility.
Attraction to Symmetry
Men and women alike are attracted to partners with symmetrical face or/ and body. The reason behind this being our brains associate symmetry with good genetics.
Subconsciously, our brains are attracted to symmetry. It is because of our brains being programmed to attract good genes and symmetry is symbolic for it.
Our brains associate good symmetry with good genetics. Genetic mutations are known to skew symmetry through the history of time. A study has also revealed that more symmetrical males enjoy more sexual pleasure. Don’t you think that symmetry is an awesome thing now?
The body shape is defined by the waist to hip ratio (WHR). While skinny women may take over magazines and fashion shows, men find curves more desirable.
Girls with a narrow waist and bigger hips tend to be more attractive to men. Men with broad shoulders are a big turn on for women.
Body language is one of the most important parts of attraction. It is the prime way of indicating availability and encouraging the beginning of a new relationship.
Exposing your belly is showing availability and stroking your neck makes you seem sexually attractive to the other person. Avoid crossing your arms and make sure your hands are visible. This makes you look more approachable.
The development of all our faces is a cause of the hormones produces in our bodies. Women develop face structure, specifically their lower face, chin, and brow.
Testosterone plays a major role in developing the lower face, jaw and the prominent brow. Our brains perceive face shape and structure as directly connected to reproductive health which is why we are attracted to well-structured faces.
Women smell and look more attractive to women at certain times of the month, more so than at other times. This has something to do with the menstrual cycle, in particular, to the time when women ovulate.
Men with more symmetry are found to smell better while menstruating women have a keener sense of smell.
A separate study suggests that women and men who have similarities in genes tend to be more attracted by each other’s smell.
The way you sound too plays a huge role in the rules of attraction. Men find women with high pitched voice attractive meanwhile women enjoy men with a deep voice.
The voice pitches are associated with the smaller size of women and deep voice related to a big body which is why voice pitches matter as such.
These are the laws of attraction proven through the help of science. Believe it or not, they are real. Try it out yourself, you’ll know.