Oh, so you still have strong feelings for your ex? Your mind wants to move on but your heart says no. While you probably broke up for a reason and whether you guys ended on great or bad terms, deep down you’re still holding on to them and the relationship you wish had gone differently.
If you still love them and feel they’re right for you, then here are a couple of ways to win your ex back-
Figure out what you want
Process your feelings. Take your time. It is really important to interpret your emotions and to take all the time that you need after breaking up. Decide if you truly should be with that person.
If you’re not entirely sure about this decision and that if they’re the right person in the long-term- Abort mission!
Don’t waste your time and energy on something worthless.
Don’t contact your ex
While it’s the opposite of what you actually want, this trick could work its way to your ex. No texts. No calls. No spending time with common friends to “accidentally” run into him. If you want to get him back, cut off all contacts with him and make him realise how much he misses you.
Give him all the space to miss you and to realise that he wants to have you back.
Find out if they’re still interested
Before trying to win your ex back and putting in all those efforts you need to find out if your ex still cares and thinks about you. Ask your mutual friends about it they’ll know them better.
Improve your Appearance
Give yourself a little touch-up. Change your style, buy new outfits, get a cute haircut or hit the gym. Be the best of yourself you can be. This might actually help you regain that attraction your ex felt for you at the beginning of the relationship.
Change your life
Invest your time in new things. New hobbies. New friendships. Fill up your life with as much joy as possible, even if you’re still down about the breakup. Love yourself and be the person you’re ex fell in love with not the one they broke up with.
Spend time with other people
Spending time with other people will let your ex know that you’re up for a relationship again. If they’re still interested, they may feel a little jealous or protective and step in to stop you from looking for somebody else.
Talk to your ex
This step should only be considered after going through the 7steps above. Casually talk to them about your life, and whatever new that’s going on. Try to bring up the ‘relationship talk’ and discuss your history together, why it ended and whether or not there’s a hope for a romantic future.
Casually associate with your ex. Don’t go out alone at first and make it look like an actual date. Call your friends along and keep it fun. Go out for a drink, play miniature golf or go bowling.
Every relationship is built on a firm foundation of friendship so make sure you guys get along and be friends again before taking things further.
After you have taken enough time together as friends, it is time to look for the right moment to be open and honest about your feelings and confess. Let the conversation flow naturally; don’t be greedy or desperate. Take full responsibility and apologize for the things in the past.