One night stands may sound like a walk in the park but if not done right they can be chaotic, confusing and complicated. It may sound simple but often this kind of sexual activity can turn into a disaster.
One night stands can land you in a world full of pleasure with no strings attached.
If you are at a stage in life where the combination of pleasure with zero commitment sounds like a dream come true, then you have come to the right place. For we are the ultimate advisor on the subject.
But be vary, the journey ahead isn’t an easy one.
There may lie traps of awkwardness, clingy partners, deadly commitments, STDs, and regrets.
Let us guide you and show you light towards an epic one night stand that you would never forget.
Never do it with a friend
You know how this is going to end right? Like one of the cliched Hollywood movies. And ain’t nobody got time for that. This would ruin your friendship for sure. Friends with benefits? No son, don’t go down that road. [Bumble has plenty of amazing options for you to browse through. Let technology help you get laid.]
It’s just sex
Don’t think beyond this. Eye of the tiger. You are there for sex, you have it, and you get out. If you want cuddles post the boom boom then one night stands might not be for you. This is real life, not a movie.
Do it for the fun of it
If you are going through a bad break up, an emotional turmoil or are doing it for some revengeful vengeance then DON’T.
Don’t go down this road because you’re gonna end up regreting.
Don’t get emotional
We usually don’t say this but run away from the feels. You don’t want feelings in one night stands. No matter how much you like the person you know it’s not going to happen.
So protect your heart, honey.
Ground rules are a must
You need to make sure that the other person is on the same page as you. Nobody wants a one-night affair to come looking for you on your door the very next day. Be clear about what you want. Otherwise, it wouldn’t remain a one night stand; it will become one night let down.
We think this should have been the first point cause it takes two to tango. Make sure that the person who you’re hooking up with is clear about the rules of the game.
By that, we mean bed performance, maturity level, single status, and STDs.
Spontaneous sex is for juveniles. You need to be sure that you have all the equipment ready for the glorious night. The equipments involved are your horny drive, protection (duh) and a designated place for the action to take place.
Don’t be shy
You know you are never gonna meet this person again in your life (hopefully). So might as well get the best of it. Indulge in all your fantasies with the person. Role-play, fetishes, sexcapades. It can be awkward to do these things with a person you know so make the most of it. Go all or go home.
Ask them what they want
Obviously, don’t be an all ‘me’ kind of a person. Sex is action;reaction and give;take. Make it more fun for both of you.
“What you seed is what you get”
Don’t ever feel guilty for whamming, bamming and thanking the mam. (Or sir). It’s totally okay to dive deep for your personal satisfaction. It’s the 21st century and if you like it, want it? You got it.
Make sure you aren’t sloshed and end up making bad decisions that you will regret in the morning.
Don’t leave your belongings
You don’t wanna go back and ask for your underwear from the stranger you just banged. So don’t leave those scarfs and earrings and save yourself the hassle.
Don’t expect breakfast
Yeah! Pancakes after sex sound like a good idea but having it with a one-night stand buddy may make it awkward. You will be forced into a conversation you wouldn’t wanna indulge in.
BY SWATI ARORA, DKODING MEDIA