Men have a lot of thoughts in and out of their minds. If you want to know how to understand a man and his mind, here’s a guide for starters.
When it comes to learning how to understand a man and his mind, you have to get to the core of what they really want from a woman. As a successful, smart and an independent woman, how do we better understand guys?
Men think about a lot of things and it is not easy for anyone to understand the mind of the opposite sex. Particularly the way men think differently from the ways women think about the same things.
If you are dating or want to start dating, it is important to know how to understand a man and his mind.
Maybe you want to know what men want in a relationship, what they want in a girlfriend or a wife, what makes men fall in love. And while there are universal ways to explain male behavior, there are of course always exceptions.
Here is something that a lot of women may know but not really think about: Men enter the realm of emotions much later in life than women.
If you want to understand men, the first thing you have to know is that men and women think differently from each other.
If you want to have a better understanding of men then you should take the differences and similarities between men and women into account while remembering that every man is still an individual of his own hopes and needs.
While there are may be many things that men and women think along the same lines, here are few things that drift away in a tangent.
Men think of adult movies
Of course, men love women, and your guy loves you too. However, if there is one of his habits that might shake you up, annoy and make you feel insecure and disgruntled, that would be the thoughts about porno*raphy of your guy. You should know that men have no ill thoughts about por*ography, unlike the majority of females.
Keep in mind that, for females, their happy feelings come from their heart. Yet, for males, happy feelings come from both the heart and the body are below it.
It does not matter if your guy watches a few movies, and think about them. You should not take these thoughts personally. In fact, he just appreciates the geometry and symmetry of their body.
And even when you don’t have such kind of a physique, he still loves you.
Men think about their friends
Your guy absolutely thinks about his friends and yours too. And, your guy also checks out women when you are not around and drools too.
When being with his friends, they might even play a game of lingerie size guessing.
And, at times, he might recollect those memories and laugh about it to himself. Though it was funny, he could never share those details with you. Also, he thinks about your friends, particularly the hot ones.
A man spends a lot of time thinking about his ego
A man thinks about his ego a lot, not the little one in his pants, but the big boost in his head. He plots revenge, he licks his wounds and gloats over his successes. He may talk about these ego issues with you if it doesn’t involve women, but if his ego is shattered by a woman, he would just talk into a shell and tell you that he’s had a bad day, or that he is just tired and wants a relax.
Be aware that men are more visually- driven
Eyesight is one of the strongest senses, and processing all the things you might see takes up a huge portion of daily cerebral processing.
Nevertheless, men are even apter than women to respond to visual cues. You may find that your man prefers to view a map to understand directions over listening to them, or they may insist that they need to see a problem so that they could fix it.
When he thinks about games
Men love playing games with you. But when you are not around, they play on their computer, or on their PlayStation, or anything that remotely interests them. They especially love games and they just can’t stop planning their moves, and thinking about the game now and then.
The next time you catch your man lost in a daze or staring happily at a wall, you’d have a better idea on what he’s thinking about now that you know what goes on in his head.
Now that you have discovered some of the most basic tips on how to understand a man.
Hope that you get something useful for your current relationship and be able to build a happy long relationship…Good luck!