We accept it. It’s not easy to bring your girl to the pleasure town with just two fingers. But it’s not impossible either.
It might seem like you would need years of practice, meditation in Himalayans and sacrifice of three virgin goats to get your girl board on an orgasm train by your fingers. BUT let us tell you, its more than that.
What’s more than goat sacrifice, you ask? It’s the thing most men lack.
Patience and observation
Basing your fingering technique on po-rn is the first blunder they do followed by other blunders, which can easily be solved. How?
Read on the following tips to make your lady go from ohh to ahh.
1. Prepare for it
Make your fingers ready for the battle. No, we don’t mean build some finger muscles by playing PUBG or indulge in thumb wars. We simply mean to be clean and ready on the tips to make her go gaga in her nether lips. Make sure your nails are cut and well trimmed before you dive deep into the caves. In order to avoid any form of infection or injury to a partner’s lady parts, make them round and smooth by the edges.
2. Be LUBE-ready.
Let us stress at this point. LUBRICATION IS HELLA IMPORTANT. As much as you might boast about your skills of making your lady wet, it’s essential to have extra help handy. Cause friction is a beach. Some ladies even if they get really wet in beginning may lose out on it a few minutes into the finger action.
“Keep it wet,
Make sure she doesn’t leave with any regrets.”
3. Communicate well
When visiting a new city, its better you buy a map. And lets us warn you every girl is like a new city. The best advice you can get for fingering is to ask the owner of that vagina. Plus this makes up as teasing foreplay, ask her to guide your hand in her territory or better yet get her to confess and dirty talk on how she pleasures herself.
4. Get comfortably positioned
You know you will be in this situation for at least 15 minutes, as that’s the average time women take to climax. So tie your seatbelts, roll your sleeves up and get comfy. You can try being right in front of your lady’s treasure trove or kissing her while your fingers explore the Amazon forest.
5. Pay attention to her reaction
You know the face ladies make when you are just right. That big O with their mouth or that lip bite. The moans and the groans. Pay heed to them. Make notes in your head and keep doing what you are doing if her body starts shaking. BUT DON’T STOP.
“Make her wet dreams come true.”
6. Know her anatomy
Do your lady a favour and know how she works down there physically. You wouldn’t want to confuse her parts. This is just basic, but some guys can’t even find the vagina. And NO! The vagina isn’t the whole thing, the vagina is just the canal.
7. Focus on the clit
This magic bean is the answer to all your doubts down there. Rub it with your fingers, massage it, flick it, and tease it. Do everything but don’t you dare ignore it. The best way to have the best of both worlds is to rub it with your palm while you finger her.
Try different patterns around the clitoris.
8. Gradually increase the speed
As much you would like to believe, you don’t have to go fast and furious on your lady. Build up the anticipation. Go slow and touch teasingly in the beginning. Try touching everything but the real deal clit or vagina. Play around with your fingers and build a rhythm.
“Build, follow a pattern and make her go crazy.”
9. Bring in the other hand
Bring out the multitasker in you. Focus on both, clit and the vagina. Finger her while you massage her clit. Or stimulate another part of her body by touching and grazing her breasts, thighs, or waist.
10. Find her G-Spot
Is it a myth? Is it real? Only one way to find. Explore for this G-Spot on your own. Find this bundle of nerves by having your palm up and making the “come here” motion with your middle and index finger. You know she will go crazy nuts if you manage to find it.
Indiana Jones has nothing on you, go for it.
Now that you know how to work with those magic fingers, you are ready to turn up the volume and swirl your lady to the zenith of pleasure. Giving her orgasm with your fingers requires patience, careful
Fingering is a skill you learn and is something which is literally in your fingertips. Happy finger diving!