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How Porn Has Ruined The Blowjob Game Forever!

Blow job. Disneyland for men. Not exactly the same for women, though. The ever-popular porn industry has glorified blow jobs and made it seem like if a woman doesn’t like blow jobs, she’s a prude and probably horrible in bed. Isn’t that a pleasant thought to start this article?

Porn is an illusion

It’s safe to say that porn has messed up a lot of peoples’ ideas of sex and intimacy. From big boobs to loud noises to an extended period of penetration time, the porn industry has and continues to be unrealistic in its depiction of something as natural as sex.

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Let’s get into the real nitty-gritty of stuff and see how a real blow job compares with the blow jobs shown in porn movies. 

Porn is filled with smooth sex moves, extreme satisfaction, and unrealistically large body parts. However, in real life, sex is awkward, weird and clumsy. Most of the times it’s the act, not the final destination that matters. Oral sex is a huge part of sex, real-life or porn, and does to some extent have an impact on the entire act of sex.

If you have certain expectations of oral sex than have been set by porn, don’t stress out. The two don’t have anything in common. There are some major misconceptions that people have when it comes to blow jobs. Some of them include but are not limited to:

Guys love fast and wild blow jobs

Men get an orgasm in an instant as get a blow job 

Men always thrust into a woman’s mouth 

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The reality

The reality is that men prefer slower, thoughtful and more delicate blow jobs. With slower blow job, there is more time for blood to flow to his genitals and muscular tension to be created throughout his body, especially his pelvic region.

The gratification is more pleasurable as the blow job is slow and creates more tension and desire. What’s more, guys enjoy all parts of the arousal process and aren’t just racing to finish. It’s not a race and they appreciate the journey as well.

A slow, tantalizing blow job will also be remembered by a guy as it will be different and has more of an intimate aspect than a rushed blow job. Additionally, men like it when women take a bit of power and control the rhythm of their own mouths and movements so that oral doesn’t hurt their jaw and they don’t gag. 

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The Difference

Porn movies would have you believe that a woman can get an orgasm while giving a blow job and do it without gagging. In reality, a woman isn’t very keen on it and does it purely for the sake of her partner’s pleasure. Similarly, in porn, a woman moans and makes sounds that indicate that this is where she wants to be.

In reality, a woman is just trying to not gag and keep her saliva in her mouth. In porn, women are acrobats with flexible limbs and can perform oral sex in any and every position. We all know that in reality, a woman is busy trying not to focus on the growing pain in her knees and the fact that she’s basically a human pretzel. 

It is important for everyone to know and realize that porn is not the ultimate sex bible and it does not have real scenarios. However, a lot of people’s point of reference is a porn movie. This creates tension, confusion and ultimately, a huge of disrespect for women.

Porn teaches men to disrespect, objectify and use women as their personal pleasure objects. Instead of promoting equality, respect and consent, the porn industry gives the message that a woman’s word is not important. And this entire thing causes a lot of grief and miscommunication even in the healthiest of relationships. 

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The take away is that a blow job, while an important part of sex, is not the be-all and end-all to make a man orgasm. If you’re comfortable, feel respected and feel safe in your environment, go for it.

Do it for yourself, girl. Not for the guy and certainly not because the porn industry says so. 



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