BY SWATI ARORA, DKODING MEDIA
We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better oh-gasmm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions?
If your sex life is getting boring and you’re looking for a way to spice it up *or even if you’re just looking to add some romance to your love life*, having sex in the tub is definitely the way to go.
Tips to have sex in the tub
You may think that you can just hop in the tub and get it on, but that would be a huge mistake. There are certain steps you should take, and different positions you should try in order to make the most out of having sex in the tub.
Turn the hot water on, add some delicious smelling scents, strip down, and get dirty while getting clean with your lover.
In order to make the night an unforgettable one, try these tips for the best ways to have sex in the tub.
Set the scene
Think dim lighting, lit candles, and a sexy soundtrack. Maybe even a glass of wine if you’re up for it. Be sure to have on hand anything and everything you might need once you’re in. In this case, I’d set aside waterproof lube since H2O washes away any natural lubrication.
Find the perfect temperature
Not too hot, not too cold, and remember: the longer you’re in there, the cooler the water becomes. Start off with a bit warmer than you want it, and it will be ideal by the time you start getting it on.
Spice up your water game with toys
In the mood for those extra tingly moments? Whether alone or with a partner, why not try a 100% water-resistant little helper next time you’re taking a bubble bath. Here are the best sex toys for a wet romance.
Use gentle bubbles and soaps
The last thing you need is for either of you have a harsh reaction to some irritating soap getting somewhere it’s not supposed to be. Nothing will kill a mood faster than a rash forming in the one place you really don’t want it to be.
Light some candles
What’s a sexy, oily, bubble bath without some candles? Turning the lights down low and having the warm glow of the candles is a great way to set the mood. It also makes the night so much more memorable.
Don’t forget the foreplay
Foreplay before having sex in the tub has to be the best part. You have a hot bubble bath all cued up for you and your partner. So get in it with them, grab a soft loofa, and scrub each other down.
Touching each other while you’re all hot and oiled up is a fantastic way to do foreplay.
And you don’t even have to stop there… if you know what I mean.
Go on top ladies!
Now have your man lower himself into the tub on his back and get right on top of him. This position is great because, with the edges of the tub, you have so much more control over your speed and depth. Try switching up those two things for maximum pleasure!
Take advantage of entire bathtub
Just because this is bathtub sex, doesn’t mean you have to be confined to the actual tub. Instead, make use of every surface.
That includes the sides of the tub, which are perfect for oral sex.
Have one partner sit on the side of the tub with their legs spread while the other partner sits inside and goes down on the first partner. This works no matter what anatomy you and your partner have. But don’t forget to take turns.
Watch your water level
When having sex in a bathtub, as opposed to a shower, you actually do have to keep your eye on the water level. This is not the time to fill up the tub as high as possible so you can sink down into the water and relax. Sex means movement and movement means water going in all kinds of directions. So, instead, keep the water level purposely lower than you would for a regular bath.
If you want to know how to have the best sex in the sex in the tub, the tips above will you make it an unforgettable night.