What is the first thing you notice about a woman don’t say her smile and eyes. If you answered honestly, it is probably her breasts. That is nothing to be ashamed of, but you know what is? You spend so much time ogling them in broad daylight and not enough time giving them the attention they deserve when the lights go low.
When it comes to sex, getting the breasts involved is all just amazing. The breasts are a nerve-rich erogenous zone that a lot of people love to take advantage of during sex.
There are some women who can even have orgasms from nipple stimulation alone.
So how do you play with her breasts? The first important thing you need to know is the “layout” of nerves around it and the proper way of stimulating it to get actual pleasure.
This is a guide for everyone who loves breast, whether you are playing with your own breasts, looking to have your breasts fondled by someone else, or are in need of some material for a partner who apparently does not know how to play with breasts; this is the article for you.
Here are some tips for breast play
Find the best ways to stimulate her breasts
Aside from your fingers and hands, you can use your teeth, lips and even your facial hair. Every stimulation creates a novel sensation for her which can register different levels of pleasure.
And don’t be afraid to experiment!
Pinch lightly before going harder.
Every woman’s body is unique. This is a golden rule to live by. What works with one partner may not work with the next. Just because you had a previous girlfriend who enjoyed hard nipple pinching does not mean your current partner will like the same.
Start lightly and then progress to more aggressive motions and pressure. Check-in with your partner and make sure she is enjoying how you are touching her.
Be willing to adjust how you are touching her according to her preferences.
Use your hands to rub her chest. Using both palms fingers facing outward; rub her from her stomach all the way up to the base of her breasts. Then trace the outline of her breasts with your fingers in a circular motion until you end up in her collarbone.
Licking is wet and warm. And then cools off as the saliva evaporates from her skin making a mix of sensations. There are a lot of ways to lick her breasts, but for now, focus on tracing circles around her areola with the tip of your tongue.
Introduce unique sensation by using ice
You have seen this in movies somewhere. Guy picks a cube of ice, uses it as a crayon and draws circles over the girl’s breasts. The amazing way, however, is to put the ice in your mouth and let the hot and cold sensations mix as you suck on her nipple.
Don’t just stick to breasts, though
While breast and nipple play both are sexy, you should not spend thirty minutes just hanging off your partner’s breast.
Be a part of foreplay and an addition to an overall sexual experience.
Bring in the Toys
You can use vibrators or feather ticklers to create some new sensations on her breasts. Even running a tie or scarf over her breasts can feel great. If she loves more intense nipple play, you can buy nipple clamps or suckers. You can also try blindfolding your partner, and touching her breasts with different toys or materials.
If someone is kind enough to put their breasts in your hands, the least you can do is just handle them with care. These are the few tips on how to play with breasts in the right way.