This is true that men are easy to please. Turning a guy on and bringing him to oh-gasm is much simpler than doing the same for a woman. But of course, it is never as simple as that. Guys have their likes and dislikes, and their turn on and turn offs, just like women do.
When it comes to sex nobody is perfect. So
Bedroom mistakes women make
Unfortunately, having bad hygiene is a mistake both women and men commonly make in the bedroom. Fortunately, it is an easily remedied one. And no, it is not just about taking a shower and keeping clean. However you choose to wear or not wear your pubic hair, it needs to be soft. Nobody wants stubble rubbing on their skin.
Talk during and after sex
If you know what I mean. Ok so, let’s face it: we know how to talk and we know when we have a captive audience. But I was surprised to find out from men how many women use sexual encounters to go over needs, complaints, and problems with their mates.
Turn off any non-sexy talk. This is the time to connect with your partner in tactile ways. Get out of your head and into your body, and let your partner do the same for you. The same goes for post-coital time. It is common for men to drift off into sleep after they have had an oh-gasm. Their bodies are designed to do just that.
Don’t take it personally if your man is inclined to sleep and less inclined to talk after sex.
You should never do something you are not comfortable with, but too often, women do. One of the most common ways they do this is by having unsafe sex at a man’s insistence. You should never have unprotected sex if you are not comfortable with it. If he does not want to use a condom with you, he probably didn’t use one with the last few women he slept with either.
You have probably read tips on when or how to fake an orgasm. Here’s the answer on when to do it: never!There is no reason to fake it. You will deprive yourself of future pleasure by making him think that whatever he did is what gets you off.
Not all women can orgasm every time, but that doesn’t mean they can’t still enjoy foreplay and sex without climax. If you can’t come, reassure him that you still enjoyed it and that it was not something he did or didn’t do.
Giving too much
Unfortunately, a lot of men are selfish lovers who place little to no importance on a woman’s pleasure. You should never accept a selfish lover. If he is not giving, then you should not be either. You can try to change him, but if he does not start pulling his weight during sex within about a week, then he is a lost cause. Get rid of him for the sake of your sex life.
You can find someone better.
Keeping him in the dark
Whether it is due to hang-ups about their bodies or because they think that’s how it should be done, many women will only have sex in the dark. Nearly all men are visual, and it is important for them to see a woman’s hair, body and face while making love. You don’t have to keep all the lights on, but it should be bright enough that you can recognize each other’s body.
For whatever reason, a lot of women and men think it’s only a man’s place to initiate sex. This is outdated to say the least, not to mention really boring. If you are in the mood, there is no need to wait for him to make the first move. Many guys will be totally turned on if a woman kicks things off. Make it extra hot for him. Dress up, or get naked and then walk in on him. And unzip his jeans and get started.
Men are easy to please, but few mistakes that women make can get him out of the mood faster than pouring a bucket of ice water on him. If you work hard to please him, he will do the same for you.
By avoiding these bedroom mistakes, you can start to make tons of progress in your sex life!