OH! You fell for that handsome, charming, witty, person with the most cutest smile that could melt any heart. But uh-oh. He is a philanderer.
Well, before you fall into a philanderer’s trap thinking that he is the one who is falling into yours-think again.
Don’t go into the fore of the battle just yet, as winning over such a dreamy Don Juan is quite a feat.
You’ve probably wondered: what do the girls in the movies do to make the womanizer love them? That dream boy that everyone dies for having has so much self-confidence and is so cute. It is not simple and can be dangerous, your heart could break into a thousand pieces because these guys often do not change even if they are interested in a specific girl.
Beware of the philanderer
He managed to make you fall for him with just a question or a compliment? He shared a few things about himself, and you know about his womanizing ways. And yet you’re hell-bent on making him fall for you—and you only. So before anything else, know these things.
He will not be true to you even if he promises he will be
A womanizer is the ‘master of convincing’ his women that they are “…the best, most beautiful…special…and I have never met anyone quite like you…” The gullible woman believes the flattery until she sees or hears about the long list of seemingly nice, pretty, and interesting former girlfriends that her date just couldn’t keep. She should be asking, “Why?” while making plans to exit the relationship.
He has a lot of female friends
The popular, handsome men/boys always have more women in their inner circle than men. Unfortunately, many of them have offered their bodies and time to the playboys in the hopes that they can settle them down.
The womanizer cannot be bought, showered with love, or given many children in an effort to try to “tame” him. Many males don’t befriend the womanizer; because they worry he will try to take their women. Some have had a history of fighting about women due to a womanizer’s conniving ways.
He often lies and hides things about himself
Womanizers never want you to know too much about them, so they are careful to hide items if they are really into a certain someone. However, if not, they don’t care too much about you seeing a bra left behind, a lipstick case in the car, or some other item left behind by another woman. Rather than, look at what is occurring as a competition for a prize while resenting his other women, save yourself a future headache, leave him alone!
He doesn’t stay happy for a long time in or out of a relationship
Since womanizers get bored easily, he can’t stay happy with too much of anything. “A job is a job…life is okay…I would really like to do more of…I wish my girlfriend would…” the displeased womanizer says. With or without a woman, a womanizer is more concerned about pursuing the next, best, or greatest person, place or thing.
He enjoys pursuing new interests, but despises routines overtime
From joining a gym to traveling to new cities, the womanizer has to keep himself entertained, because he hates his mundane life of going to work and coming back home. One of the things that make him feel good during his spare time is talking to women.
At the beginning of the relationship, the womanizer is fascinated with his new “catch.” But he knows that in time, he will lose interest in her particularly when disagreements would arise. Therefore, he will make the most of his time while he can still make her smile while thinking of yet another woman to date.
How to make a philanderer fall for you- and only you
It’s easy to fall for a man who attracts women magnetically. He knows it, and you know it too that he can have any girl he wants, and he seems to have this magical power to have women throwing themselves at him wherever and whenever he wants.
The challenge, of course, is to capture his undivided attention, so he doesn’t notice any of the other pretty girls ogling for his attention.
You can play brand new to all the other chicks out here
But I know what you are, what you are, baby.
Here are a few concrete tips to help you sink your claws into a player’s heart and make him fall head over heels in love with you.
Don’t let him catch your attention
Never show your attention towards him because philanderers are used to woman falling for their charms, laughing at their jokes, with faces lighting up each time they walk into a room. Show that you’re different right off the bat. By not being like every other girl, that’s the only way you will get his attention.
Don’t try to hard
Just be you and don’t try too hard for anything. After all, when you think hard about it you have nothing to lose. And for that matter everything to gain.
Let him know that you know
Let him know one thing very clearly that you are not a fool. You can see through him and you really don’t care. Most women would be mad at their philanderer boyfriend but if you catch him eying another girl, just make sure he sees you be all nonchalant about it.
Get to know him
Just try to get a deeper scoop about him, his likes, his dislikes and all know what he likes the most, as there are probably things that interest him other than woman. Once you know this, use it to intrigue his brain and leave an impression on him.
Don’t fall for the lines
The most important thing to make a philanderer fall for you is that you don’t fall for their cheesy lines. Just because he’s got his eye only on you looking so dreamy that doesn’t mean you are the only one for him. Never believe too easily whatever he says.
Boy, don’t try to front, I-I know just, just what you are!