The fear of getting judged makes people suppress their true desires, some men can be unknowingly dominant. Read on to know whether your boyfriend is secretly dominant
Take a moment and ask yourself, how often do you notice that your boyfriend is the point person when it comes to making decisions, and getting things done. Does he step into the role of the team leader on group projects and even when it comes to tiny decisions? Do people tend to follow his lead at social gatherings?
He might be a secret dominant!
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Well, if your answer is yes, you might have got yourself someone who likes to dominate in relationships and life. But, does this carry on in bed? Does your man like to establish control in bed? Well, you might have got yourself a closeted, secret dominant!
Sometimes, people who like dominance and sadism tend to suppress their desires unconsciously. This is because of the fear of being wronged and judged.
Whether someone is dominant or submissive, that role should speak to who they really are inside. It’s nothing more than a label for the natural inclinations they feel anyway. Still, they sometimes manage to push these needs so far inside that they can’t seem to realize them when it comes to their unconscious actions. This is actually way more common than you may think!
Wondering if your boyfriend has this hidden tendency? Well, let us help you find an answer to that question!
Here are some traits that make it easier to identify a closet dominant
He Likes Things to Be Done His Way
Have you ever noticed this trait in your boyfriend? Does he like to make sure that everything you do is done in his special and unique way?
Dominants have the tendency to have their quirks about how stuff should be done and they tend to feel uneasy and irritated if their way doesn’t materialize.
He Can Be Overpowering in The Bedroom
Dominants have natural urges to dominate inside and outside the bedroom. They love to overpower to the level where the is sexual tension in the air intensifies. The sexual intensity of being with a dominant is far more intense than any other sexual experiences that you may go through.
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He Knows You Better Than Anyone Else
Lots of people look at dominants the way commoners looked at kings. All they saw was the servants, the respect, and the swagger. What they didn’t see was that the rulers were responsible for understanding the people, caring for their needs, and taking on other responsibilities of being a ruler. Being a dominant is similar.
They have a tendency to take their sweet time to get to know you and hence, work hard to make sure you feel like the most important person in the world.
He Tries to Give You A Lot of Advice
It takes a lot of trust for someone to open themselves up and to submit to the will of another. This way they’re leaving themselves incredibly vulnerable, not just physically, but also emotionally.
Once this connection is established, dominants get possessive about their loved one. They wish to be involved in everything their partners do, and hence, spends time on making sure you are okay and gives you some awesome advice.
He Takes Proper Care of You
Dominants have this need to take their time when it comes to understanding their partners, learn about their wants and needs, and more often than not, they like to provide for them too.
They care for your needs and wants more than they do for others, even for themselves.
If you have managed to find you a man like that, good catch, sister!
Hold on to him and snuggle in closer because dominant men make very amazing boyfriends. They adore you and care for you along with pleasing you sexually and thoroughly!
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