Anal sex is no longer a huge taboo in the sex world rather has toys introduced to help with ass play! With plenty of anal sex toys for you to use in anal play, exploring the realm of backdoor pleasure is definitely worth it.
The kind of body-rockin’ stimulation you’ll get with these types of intimate products is unparallel. These distinct sex toys used for anal come in a wide range of shapes and sizes so that anyone from any experience level can enjoy.
But anal sex is still a tricky territory to tackle. Women are less likely to try or enjoy it, because of stigmas, and those who do enjoy it, are hesitant about admitting that they like it or want more of it. Which is totally okay; you’re not under any obligation to spill the beans about your sex life to anyone ever. But we need to remember that in denying it, we’re just keeping the taboo surrounding anal sex alive and why do that?
Even if you’re not sure how to feel about the whole toys used for anal, it doesn’t mean you can’t pick up a few sex toys just to give it a whirl or spice up your sex life a little.
Why use anal sex toys:
There could a million reasons why anyone would use anal sex toys but its mostly because they love to experiment! Here is why you need to use these toys:
- I love being completely filled to my core
- Sex with a butt plug is heaven and much better than a vibrator
- Fantasizing about sex with a man is a plus
- Deep penetration feels incredible
- The sensation is heavenly and unparallel
Toys used for anal sex are amazing, especially if you enjoy anal stimulation but want a little bit ‘more’ in that mundane routine. They allow you to really explore your body and experiment with different sensations and techniques. Both men and women can experience extreme pleasure and of course, immensely. There’s the added bonus of the infamous Prostate orgasm that everyone on this Earth must try at least once. You won’t regret unlocking that little gem and doing it over.
The Best Oversized Anal Sex Toys I Own
The Best Large Butt Plug
This large butt plug is flexible yet firm and is made with silicone for easy insertion and easy to clean as well! It comes in various sizes to love.
Oversized Anal Beads
These are the giant silicone anal beads that will fill you up with undiluted pleasure and ecstasy. You must take your time as you conquer each of the three oversized beads but once you do, it’s all you’ll use.
Made from skin-safe silicone these large anal beads are ideal for those who love the stretching sensation and can’t get enough! People who Love to be challenged and want something a lot large than your average anal bead.
The Big Prostate Massager That Always Hits The Spot
It may be slightly smaller but it certainly does the job by hitting the spot just about right and giving you the pleasure a bigger one would!
Must-Know Advice For Using Large Sex Toys
1). Get The Right Lubrication
Ensuring you are using the right lube with your sex toy is essential to making sure you are comfortable with anal and the sex toy used won’t get ruined. Here are a few key things you really should know:
- Silicone toys don’t work with silicone lube, its the opposite
- Oil breaks condoms, so avoid getting all slippery
- Water-based is essential to use with most sex toys as it’s safe to use, go get it on!
- An anal lubricant is harder to wash off and completely different from vaginal lube, it’s thicker and usually lasts a lot longer, so use it wisely.
- Coconut oil isn’t safe to use with condoms and should be avoided
You need to take the toy out and reapply lube every once in a while while using it for anal. Especially if you aren’t using an anal based lube that isn’t as thick to last.
2). An anal desensitizing cream is good, but…
You need to be careful, don’t use it before testing a toy, you don’t want to use an anal toy that’s too big. And then not be able to feel if you’re stretching too much or not!
I like to use anal desensitizing cream if I haven’t had anal sex for a while but always remember to be careful and go slowly and it could still hurt later.
3). Warm-up your butt for anal play
You probably already know this, but you need to warm up a lot before using any one of these toys. Don’t just try and slip it in, warm up your anus and ensure you go slowly at first, no matter how experienced you are or how much the rush is.
- Use a smaller sex toy at first for starters
- Use your fingers to massage and stretch the area slowly
- Ensure you use plenty of lube always
- Start small and work your way up to a fast session
4). Always wash your anal toys with warm soapy water and leave to dry
Cleaning all of your sex toys used for anal is always a must. It helps you to avoid infection and other issues caused by dirty sex toys and honestly is gross. It also helps to keep them in great shape and hygienic.
Before washing your sex toys make sure they are either waterproof or splashproof and if they are not, clean your sex toys using wet wipes or sex toy cleaning wipes, just make sure they’re germ-free!
You can hold a vibrator to your clit as you try out an anal dildo and you can masturbate your penis while simultaneously pleasuring your prostate for an orgasm.
6). Milk your prostate
Press his prostate spot which is about the size of a walnut inside of the anus and gently put slight pressure on this and see him moan. You can also achieve this by using anal sex toys and amplify pleasure.
Prostate milking feels amazing and it isn’t hard to do, you just need to find the prostate, lube up your fingers or sex toy and boom you’re having the best orgasm ever.
Things to Know About Using Anal Sex Toys
Can I do damage to my butt?
You can if you don’t warm up the are properly you might just. You do need to start small and work your way up, it won’t take long but it’s so worth taking the extra time but warming up is integral.
Using lots of lube, being horny, stimulating the area beforehand and going slowly will help you to prevent any painful experiences and make it worthwhile.
Are all these toys body safe?
Every sex toy is phthalates free, latex-free and body safe, used solely for pleasure and enjoyment.
Anal sex toys can not only be fun to experiment but can also be a great way to spice up your sex life!