Men…they are everywhere when you want one. And, all you could find is a married one? Why lady? An affair with a married man could be rather tricky and complicated as it can seem and maybe it could get a lot worse.
Lady, you’re not brave, he is because he’s handling two wild storms at a time!
While this one is a living nightmare for most women, few others are living a real hell. But surprisingly hell fires like these don’t happen on purpose, few just happen and you can’t really control over the feelings.
Dating a married man never really comes with a manual, but for a few women, the fact that a man is unavailable makes him even more appealing and makes her crave for him more than the ones who are available.
Well, ladies, you guessed right, the writer right here had an affair with a married man and it was a sweet storm that came with hails and misty dewdrops.
Love and lust should’ve come with a manual.
The first time I ever fell in love or maybe you can call it lust, was with a married man when I was in high school. He was my teacher but he was also a great guy and to top it off he was extremely chivalrous and charming. He was gorgeous and funny. I knew he was my ‘good friend’ but what I also knew was that things might get heated up pretty soon.
But, this blighter of a man had a wife and she was (hate to admit) very beautiful. She complimented him perfectly.
Things started getting a little funny and yet heated ever since the School New Year party happened. All of my friends and I were out together, except for my ‘good friend’s’ wife because she was spending her night with her family and relatives. And, I did not mind that at all.
Affair- the only true commitment to a broken heart.
We were having fun dancing and we were quite drunk, the clock struck midnight and he was right in front of me in a blurry mist. I don’t quite remember what happened after that, but I had the most passionate kiss of my life.
A static moment of darkness and confusion later, but the confusion that gave me a tingling pleasure and I was left craving for more than just a kiss.
He smiled at me and he hugged me tight, I didn’t know what to say but what I did know is that I enjoyed this sudden rush of adrenaline down my veins.
The best part about this sweet accident is that we didn’t really talk about it but the story went on. He came over to my place quite often, and the sex seemed like the ‘best sex ever’ every single time.
Perfection comes with its own list of flaws and my imperfect love story had its own flaws. Every time his wife called him, made me realize what I was missing and what seemed to be mine didn’t really belong to me. He would tell her that he was busy in a meeting or at the library, and I knew I would never really be owned with pride and dignity…ever!
Sometimes they fought and as sly as it may seem, their fights gave me hope. But they were married for a reason. On some days he would tell how tired he was of his marriage and I’d ask him to file a divorce, but he’d deny every single time, which pissed me off completely.
A busy man after work could either be in love with his job or his secretary.
All good or rather hidden secrets come to an end some day or the other. And for ‘us’ that day had come, when his wife caught us have sex in their bedroom. She came in unannounced and it was a moment of shock and guilt, all at once. It went on for a good five years, and in a second I lost my dear ‘teacher’.
He lost his wife and he refused to see me at all, I loved him and I wanted to be there for him, but it was definitely my last. I had two more affairs with married men over the next decade and the same hurt and break vicious circle went on and on.
Broken marriages are often mended with broken hearts.
Having an affair with a married man is easy. In most cases, married man and affairs go hand in hand. They’re just looking around for love and affection that they’ve been missing.
But now I’ve made up my mind, NO MORE. They are extremely charming and sweet, but the hurt and hide game gets too much to take in.
The way someone wants to hide you like you’re some dark mess destined to be hidden, is more hurting than you could ever imagine.