It is the most common sexual fantasy to have sex with a stranger and why not, it comes with its advantages. It has all the potential to live up to what we imagine it to be. Often in a relationship or when we know the person, we always worry about their sexual satisfaction and sex has a certain meaning attached to it, like connection or love.
But when sex is just sex, then you can focus on your own sexual pleasure and get really into it.
There is something about casual sex that has captured the cultural imagination since the first non-committed couple decided to bed down for a quickie. And regardless of where you land on the sexual spectrum, you are likely to have an opinion about sex with a stranger.
Sex with strangers has a lot of advantages and it is good for you in many ways, so don’t let anyone stop you from doing this.
That may sound intense, but having sex with a stranger casually is no different from drinking and smoking. It is a vice that lets us feel good.
Here are the advantages of having sex with a stranger:
1. The best sex ever
This is obvious that if you care less about your future and think just about the present than you can actually enjoy the moment.
Living for the moment is a great stress reliever.
Worrying about the future and things beyond our control will only add burden on our mind and give us wrinkles.
Besides, we all know sex has a lot of health benefits. It doesn’t matter if our partner is a lover or a complete stranger. The benefits are always the same.
2. A self-esteem booster
Sex with a stranger can be great for your wellbeing if you are doing it for the right reasons. Like wanting enjoyment and fun, wanting to explore and learn more about your sexuality.
We believe it’s an important experience to have. If you have mentally checked all those boxes then your sexual escapade could lead to higher self-esteem and life satisfaction.
3. It can lead to less regret with no emotional fallout
Men are always down for casual sex and women are merely peer pressured into it. While this is limited (and even dangerous) thinking, it apparently does matter who makes the first move.
In fact, women who initiate casual sex are less likely to experience feelings of regret about an encounter.
According to a study conducted by the Norwegian University of Science and Technology and the University of Texas, a combination of
“Higher levels of sexual gratification,” viewing your partner as “sexually competent,” and initiating contact are all predictors for reduced casual sex regret, which is often driven by feelings of “disgust.”
Although let’s get real, the sex itself does have quite an impact on how you feel about the alliance in the end.
4. Feels liberating
We give in to it because our body craves for it. Our bodies want to have sex the same way we crave for food, the same way we feel thirsty for water, and gasp for air.
So yes it worth having sex to satisfy our desires. Again it is worth doing it as often as we want.
With anyone we want? The answer depends on your moral values and standards. If they are that low, then by all means. We may not judge, but there are some people in this world who take it upon themselves to spend their energy and time to judge others. Strangers included. Maybe there are emotional bonds that form by having sex with a stranger.
5. Variety with a touch of danger can be fun filling and spicy
It is worth having sex for health benefits and if you are doing it with multiple partners it can spice up for life.
Speaking of Russian Roulette, gambling is also another vice that people get hooked on to. The thing with gambling is that it strikes deep to some of very basic instincts. Humans can’t resist the natural high of winning. We also are too competitive to quit. So we keep playing.
7. It can be sexually re-awakening
When we are having sex with a stranger, it is a lot easier to “let go”, enjoy and experiment. Most of us tend to stay in control of our sexual expressions and there are also stigmas attached to certain sexual behaviors.
So we may not get to try everything we want or even ask for it for fear of judgment or rejection.
Doing it with a stranger someone has the potential to redefine the sexual experience and allow you to discover new things.
8. You become more comfortable with your sexuality
You must have a foundational relationship with yourself sexually first. This could mean touching yourself through mastur*ation, or learning how to express the way you like to be touched and not being afraid to say those things. Your pleasure matters a lot.
9. It empowers you
When you actually know what you want with sex and you are able to express it, this makes you more empowered. You don’t need to wait for expressing who you are. It will make you feel powerful and sexy in the bedroom. It builds your confidence in every area of your life.
Sex with a stranger can be fun, ecstatic, and amazing.
Make sure you know exactly what you are getting into and that it’s good for both of you. The way to make it work and explore is to have lots of amazing sex!