Massage…the very word makes you go mmmm yes please a little more…a little lower…a little deeper!
It just gets better if your partner is gifted with the ‘magical touch’ or at least knows the art of pleasuring you with a relaxing yet a sensual massage.
Ladies, if being pampered is your thing then drooling over a good massage is his thing. Wait there! Don’t panic yet, in case you haven’t nailed the art of massages ever in your life, then we have you covered with the ultimate ‘sensual secrets’ to an amazing massage.
There isn’t a single earthling who doesn’t like massages be it your pet beagle or your pet man (of course he’s a pet – he’s cute, he drools and he loves food any time).
But when it comes to massages, it isn’t just about rubbing, pressing, squeezing and done! Massages have a lot of effort that goes into it. But don’t worry it isn’t much of a huge task and you really don’t need to burn your pockets with a Thai massage tutorial session.
Let’s ignite the massage engines, shall we?
Lighting is ze first key
A sensual massage and a sexy atmosphere go hand in hand.
You’ll never get into the mood if your room is too bright or filled with fluorescent lights, I mean like please spare the eyesore! If you don’t have an option then turn off the lights and bring in those scented candles that you’ve been saving for the ‘right moment.’
It’s the little things
Apart from the lighting (which is really important), don’t you dare overlook that, there are other smaller things that need your attention. Like, set the right room temperature, not too hot nor too cold.
Have a warm towel ready for him to lie down and custom made ‘classic old-fashion cocktail.’ (He will fall in love with you all over again).
Choose the right music
Nope don’t you dare turn on the volume with that ‘Katy Perry’ again, you have the entire year for that. Go for some smooth and sensual instrumental music (not the elevator type) that’ll help him relax. It’ll create a warm atmosphere and allow your partner to actually get into the mood.
It’s all about the nose
If you’re in the mood for a good pamper session for him then make sure you do it right. You definitely don’t want him to sniff in those musty damp clothes or that leftover pizza. Go on and clean up and bring in those scented diffusers or light a few scented candles.
You might chuck this step and think that it isn’t really a big deal, but trust me, lady, when they lay there, all they’ll want is to relax to the scent of something warm, cozy and fresh.
Oils could be your magic potion
You’re almost there, so make sure you get this one right too. There are a zillion massage oils ready for your pick but in case you’re confused then we suggest you play safe and go for something that will never go wrong. Something like sandalwood, or rose or maybe grapeseed oil.
Warm up is the key
If you want to turn him on, make sure you go slow and turn him on right. And when we say ‘go slow’ we don’t mean that you move in slow motion, we mean that you don’t hit the e-zones just as yet, play around a bit, massage him nice and deep, buzz up his ignition level nice and slow.
Start with a nice massage around the neck, upper back, arms…work it up and way down the lower back and upper thighs.
Make sure your hands are warm
It might sound funny but nope it isn’t! Cold hands on a warm back aren’t really a good feeling at all. If you think this one’s a funny move that’ll crack him up then lady you’re wrong, you’ll just turn off all the right buttons.
Work your way down the body
If this is your first time and you aren’t too sure where to begin then we’d say, begin from the head and start working your way down towards the neck. Avoid using oil around the head, unless he’s in for a head and hair spa massage too. Work it down towards the head, boy oh boy! He will love you!
This one’s a magical technique for ze beginners. All you need to do use your thumbs and apply pressure. Press, stretch or knead, or even tap while moving in a circular motion. Apply pressure gradually and don’t shock them with a deep pressure right away!