No matter how ‘active’ you are, there is always a point when you will be stuck in the dark spell of dryness and hump deprivation.
Well, we don’t mean to sound evil, but it’s a sad fact that couldn’t get more real. And there could be various factors related to this dark evil spell like you’ve been in a long term relationship for too long and you just broke up recently or you’ve been too stuck with your work life that you almost forgot about your little friend down there who’s been crying out for attention.
Whatever the reason might be, you need to calm down and most importantly you need to stop procrastinating right now!
A sexual dry spell is more common than you think and it could last up to a year, a few months or even a few weeks. If you’ve been highly active in the recent past then a few days could also seem difficult to get past.
But fret not folks…monsoon isn’t too far away and here’s how you can get wet all over again!
Get the groove back
It’s time to hit the gym and beat out all the pent-up sexual energy. Hitting the gym isn’t just good for your dry spell but also for your health or maybe engage in some yoga.
Apart from getting back in the groove, exercise will make you feel happier and you won’t be feeling that sexually frustrated like you used to. The best perk of exercising is that, when it’ll actually be time to hit the bed, you’ll be lasting longer than you usually do.
Go on multiple dates before you hit the bed
You’ve been on a dry spell and your expectations and desires might have changed. Your sexual waves might have risen or fallen so you need to warm up before you dive in.
Go on dates, meet different people or maybe the same person and get to know them better and see how you guys connect. As you get to know the person, you’ll be sure if you just need some casual sex or some deeper lovemaking with an emotional connection.
Indulge in ‘Quickies’
Quickies are like baby cupcakes – you enjoy every bite of it and just when you feel the yumm…it’s over and you’re left craving for more.
Quickies always don’t end up with sex, sexual stimulation is what really happens during a quickie which releases oxytocin. If you’re in a relationship and still stuck in a dry spell then you need dive in with more quickies. It might not lead you to a bed rocking drama but your sexual esteem will be highly boosted.
Graphic content shall be your buddy
While it’s actually healthy to play it ‘solo’ and indulge in adult movies, while treating your little friend to some pleasure, it is also quite productive if you’re trying to nurse your dry spell.
Adult movies could be addictive while you’re stuck in a sad dry spell. In an attempt to find something real you might find yourself getting stuck in the digital jungle. Adult movies might settle you for a short term but make sure you don’t make it a way of living.
In case you indulge too much into these graphical content you might find it hard to cope with reality and your partners altogether. It’s time to log out and get real for a bit.
Time for some makeover
Maybe you like the way you are but honey you’ve been stuck with that 90s haircut for way too long and those clothes (I wouldn’t wear them at home either) need a serious makeover.
Getting a makeover will not just make you feel good about yourself, but also you’ll be left with a lot of confidence. A little change in style could make a huge difference, a decision you will never regret. Because this decision will leave too may head turners and craving souls.
Online dating isn’t so bad
There are a zillion ways to meet new people when you really want to and online dating isn’t really a bad option if you know what you’re into and how you want it to go. You’ll be sweetly surprised to know that there are too many fished out there in the sea who are just waiting for the one ‘DM’ for you. So stop whining and start swiping.
Be prepared for bedroom malfunctions
You’ve been out of your game for some time now and it’ll be best if you’re honest about this evil spell to your partner. Because darling you have been out of practice and a little bit of a mishap here and it is absolutely normal and nobody is judging you because it’s you, not your skills.