Your workplace is where you may be spending half of your day at and it’s often a place where unlikely friendships are forged.
A workplace can often be a breeding ground of a romantic inclination and a sexual attraction towards your co-worker.
The workplace is usually buzzing with action and energy making it a propeller for romantic feelings
It is not unusual to feel attracted to members of the opposite sex, given the time you spend in the office and common interests and goals that you share with your co-workers.
Do you feel a male colleague likes you? Have you been wondering if a male co-worker is attracted to you?
So, that guy in the office has been chatting you up regularly over the water dispenser and this morning he even brought you coffee! Umm hold up- is he just being friendly, or he is into you?
The signs of a guy liking you at a party are quite similar to the signs of a male co-worker liking you, but he may not be upfront in approaching you, as he doesn’t wish to sabotage his professional career.
This romantic spark could arouse between any two people at work whether equals or seniors and subordinates.
Professional relationships can turn sour and ugly if you wrongly interpret a man’s friendly behavior and equate them with flirting.
How to spot the subtle signs a coworker likes you
Read these signs carefully in your male co-worker to find out if he likes you. If he is into you, these signs will spill the beans.
He cannot take off his eyes of you
Body language says everything. What you have to do is just observe him for some days and woo-hooo! You will know!
Do you see him looking at you constantly? Might be during meetings or when you are talking to other guys. He never misses the chance to look at you from the corner of the eyes when you both are working together.
If his eyes only looking for you every time, then this might be the first sign and clear one to know he is into you.
They find excuses to spend time with you
You are not sure why, but you always seem to end up working the same shifts as them. Not to mention being assigned to the same projects and having them fill you in on reports when you called in sick.
They know what’s going on with you
When a coworker likes you, they seem to always know what is going on with you. Whether they are up to date on all your Instagram stories or know the project you’re working on, they are always interested.
Knowing what you’re doing gives them a reason to talk to you.
He is helping too much
So you have a very helpful co-worker, who makes your work easier to complete. He is always there to help you. Not only help, but he will guide you or let you know some well-guarded secrets of the job or office. He will discourage you from asking for help from other colleagues as well.
They make time for you
When you’re at work the priority is work, right? Well, a sign a coworker likes you is when they are taking time away from that for you. Whether they take an extra few minutes to chat with you in the break room or delay heading home to spend time with you, then chances are this coworker like you.
They notice changes in your mood
If there is someone at work that knows when you’re having a bad day and tries to perk you up, chances are they are showing signs they like you. Even if you are good at hiding your annoyance with your boss or are down for another reason, a coworker who likes you will be more in tune to your moods.
He compliments you for all the little and big things
This is a very obvious sign. If a guy is complimenting you often, he clearly is interested in you. He will never leave out a chance of complimenting the changes he notices or even your habits.
Office romance can get extremely tricky and risky, so tread that line with caution and take a step forward if you really into someone.
BY SWATI ARORA | DKODING MEDIA