If your partner is unfaithful, affair fog will always give them away. Find out if your partner is under another’s spell.
Being cheated on can be extremely hurtful. If you have ever experienced it before, you know that already. You also know that your partner always behaves slightly different than usual when they’re being unfaithful.
Every victim of unfaithfulness will be able to tell when their partner is being unfaithful. Sometimes the affair fog is so subtle, it is hard to tell when they are being cheated on. Sometimes, people don’t even think badly of their partner’s change in behaviour.
Being with an unfaithful person is highly traumatic and emotionally deteriorating for anyone. You start to face trust issues and low self-esteem, neither of which are good things.
So, for your own sake, you must break away from an unfaithful partner.
Here are 10 signs of Affair fog:
#1 They seem distracted:
Affair fog is distracting for your partner, it is like being under someone’s ‘spell’, so to speak. They are distracted and not themselves. If you notice this kind of behaviour, monitor it closely. Although it could also mean that they are stressed out about something, it could possibly turn out to be that they are being unfaithful to you.
#2 They are high:
Until you bring it up; if your partner is having an affair, they are probably experiencing the giddiness that comes with the beginning of a new relationship, probably just like you both did when you first got together.
But whenever you bring up that they are happy, they suddenly seem low because of the guilt that comes as baggage with cheating.
#3 They start fights out of nowhere:
When your partner is cheating on you, they are likely to start fights out of the blue, for no apparent reason. This happens because they are trying to get rid of the guilt that comes from cheating.
They feel that they can justify being happy with someone else if they feel unhappy with you or are mad at you.
#4 They get annoyed when you do nice things for them:
If you have ever been in a healthy relationship, chances are that you are used to doing nice things for your partner. Is your partner getting annoyed by you doing sweet things for them?
If so, it could be because of their guilt weighing down on them from cheating on you. It ruins the image they create of you being a bad person so they can justify their actions. You being sweet to them annoys the cr*p out of them because it obliterates that image.
#5 They try to emotionally distance themselves from you:
It will be very obvious when this happens. When you are intimate and close and your partner starts pulling away from you, it is easy to spot.
They stop sharing things with you, they won’t care for how you feel. If they are emotionally unattached, they won’t feel the guilt of cheating on you, won’t feel as though they are hurting you – even though they are.
#6 Your partner doesn’t care about their hobbies:
When someone is being unfaithful, they tend to stop caring about their hobbies and interests altogether. They put their life on the backburner as a means to pretend they are not doing anything wrong. They dissociate from life altogether at times.
#7 They constantly put you down:
This too is a means to relieve guilt by pushing you away. They imagine flaws in you to make themselves feel better. They point out things they don’t like about you constantly where they never would have said anything before.