Looking for a guy who’s tall, dark and handsome? Well lady, maybe you need to stretch your horizon just a little more. It’s time to bring out the ‘what do you look for in guys’ list that you have secretly hidden in your lingerie drawer.
Surprised? Well, maybe not because every girl has one hidden treasure and the lingerie drawer tops the list all the time. Focus ladies, focus on the guys and not the lingerie (they’re more attractive, we know).
A man is just a woman’s strategy for making other woman.
So, we have these 10 handcrafted guidelines for you to undertake the next time you venture out for your next date.
Kindness
If you thought kindness was a girly trait then don’t be surprised if a girl turns out to be a jerk. Kindness is crucial when it comes to looking for a trait in your partner. Being kind is being empathetic. Above all wouldn’t it feel nice if you man brings you soup to your bed when you’re not well. Divine!
Honesty
“I fell asleep at work and mysteriously my pants were down and my secretary was naked beside me.” Nope, you don’t want to deal with that kinda man. You’d want a man who would be honest with you to a level where he’d tell you that you’ve got corn stuck in your teeth. Not only this will save you from walking around with corn in your teeth but it shows honesty and trust.
Ambitious
My dad always told me that it never mattered how much a guy earns unless he’s ambitious. Ambition never keeps a man hungry. Daddy was definitely right. If your man isn’t ambitious enough you might find him stuck to his video games or out with his pub buddies. You’re not nursing an overgrown man, you’re dating one so just run!
Confidence
Confidence, nothing sexier than that! When you’re around someone who’s confident and happy with themselves teaches you how to be comfortable with yourself. There’s something really hot about a man who walks with his head high.
Generous
Okay, we admit it that every girl loves gifts but this does mean that he should lather you with gifts all the time (don’t mind that though). Generosity can come from anywhere, from supporting a local charity to sharing the last bite of pizza. It’s all that it counts.
Reliable
He said he’ll pick you up from work because it was late and couldn’t catch a ride back home and you’re still waiting? And where is he? At the games with the boys! Nope lady you can’t take a chance on that one. Reliability is important.
Men are like trees, they take forever to grow up.
Assertive
‘No’ means no! But at times a ‘no’ could really be hot, of course when a guy says it. Other than the fact that his ‘no’ could get your love hormones oozing, a guy’s denial could mean a lot of things and one of them could be, he’s not a player.
Sense of humour
He needs to be a sport when it comes to cracking jokes and should be able to laugh at himself when his sad PJ utterly fails. Men who are serious and mysterious are no fun to be around with. You wouldn’t want to chill with a man of this sort after a long tiring day. You need to be with a guy who makes you laugh until your stomach hurts.
Loves himself
Well, this one is really important and is more about physical hygiene. You don’t need a squeaky clean Jockey model even though we know that you wouldn’t mind one. We won’t mind one either, but it’s more about him eating healthy and being physically fit.
There’s more sexy than a man who knows how to make his lady moan.
Passionate
A thrusting push against the wall, a passionate kiss on a drunken night does not get any better, or does it? (winks). If this level of crazy passion is directed towards you then that’s just as ideal as it can get. It shows how much he truly loves and how he puts his heart out to you.
Oh dear sweet men, can’t live with them, can’t live without them so make your choices right!
