Have you been noticing something fishy with one of the girls you know from work, lately? Is she giving some signals, but you don’t know what they mean? Is she really flirting with you or just playing games?
To help you clear up all those tangled thoughts, here are 10 flirting moves she maybe pulling that you’re totally missing out on-
Making the first move
When a girl takes up the courage to start a conversation with a guy, for some very strange reason some guys seem to completely miss the whole point- that the person who approached might be flirting and actually be interested in you. DUH!
This is certainly one of the flirting signs guys miss the most. When we want to impress somebody we admire or someone we’re crushing on, we correct our posture and stand up a little straighter around them. This makes us look more confident.
‘Fake it until we make it!’
This is copying the position of the person you’re hitting on. It is something we have no control over. It’s a very powerful subconscious thing we do. For example, if they’re standing with their hands folded, you do it too.
It’s our body’s way of showing that we like someone we’re mirroring.
Do you ever find yourself fidgeting when you’re talking to somebody you adore? You may be tapping your hands together, playing with your hair or biting your lip.
These are signs that someone is feeling nervous. And that nervousness is because you’re flirting! But this is a big one that guys often miss.
Making him Jealous
This tactic of grabbing attention is a pretty good one. But guys miss it in a big way. You flirt with someone else to make him feel jealous. Guys are good at noticing when someone is flirting with another person but miss out the signs when somebody flirts with them. What Dorks!
Approach with caution here as this tactic could backfire.
Social Media Overload
This is another of those flirting signs guys miss. You might think to like all his pictures, commenting on funny remarks, and sending him sexy selfies of yourself is flirting. Wherein he thinks you’re just being friendly and social media active. All those attempts have gone to waste.
Liking the things he likes
You suddenly develop an interest in things that he likes. You might start eating Vietnamese food or start watching the Netflix show that he liked.
But does he get that you’re flirting? NO. He genuinely thinks you’re interested in the hobbies or just binge-watching shows all of a sudden.
Giving out compliments is a great way of flirting with someone you like. It’s a flirting sign that gets noticed easily, but guys often miss the point and think that you’re actually being nice. Don’t get overboard it and hit the sweet spot in the middle, he might get it.
I mean, what’s here to not get?
Asking for help
When you ask for help, he genuinely thinks that you need a helping hand with something. But what he misses is that you’re doing it so you can spend more time with him and flirt.
One thing that is so obvious when a person is really into you is if they’re always super excited around you. They’ll poke you; tickle you, and basically do anything to touch you. They’ll laugh at almost all your jokes, even when they’re not that funny.
You should really pay close attention to notice this flirting sign.