Marriages, they say, are a match made in heaven. It is every girl’s dream to get married and have her own dream wedding.
Marriage is an institution where two people exchange vows to support each other for life and have unlimited sex!
Initial, two to years into married life is all as you have imagined. There is love, there is chemistry and there’s excitement. But all of that eventually the sex fizzles out, telling you by my experience.
When romance becomes dull, you need new ways of spicing up. So, my husband and I decided to switch to Tinder. And what happened next is…
So my husband (Nicolas) and I (Anna) are happily married for five years now. Our marriage took place on June 11, 2014. We were first college sweethearts, then he went abroad for a year for work. While we maintained a long-distance relationship, we knew we are going to get married once he comes back.
He returned after a year and I had also completed my Masters by then. I introduced him to my family and I met with his’. Everything went well and then when got married.
Our Marriage Changed In Just Three Years
Fast forward to three years later, my husband and I wouldn’t have sex for months and the fire in our relationship started dying. That’s when he decided we create a profile on Tinder. At first, I was a little reluctant as this could harm our marriage in a really bad way.
But my husband convinced me and we decided that we will not let Tinder affect our marriage.
So I downloaded Tinder
I uploaded four photos of myself, one even where I had to crop my husband out. I prepared a bio and my bio read as “Sporty, fun and adventurous. open-minded and literally open to doing anything on Tinder.“
It has been four months since and not one day of my life has I not used Tinder. It’s so addictive!!
We Became Married Couples on Tinder
My husband and I meet new people from Tinder. He even shares a few of his encounters with me. We mostly joke about it and laugh around it. None of us has ever got serious for one of our Tinder matches. I see, all my sexual encounters have got in me this crazy-little-freak that I relish. I feel young and rejuvenated.
This one time, I hooked up with a college-going boy and we hit it off instantly. He asked me if I was married (since I forgot to remove my wedding ring) and I had to tell him. But he wasn’t concerned. He always wanted to hook up with someone who was elder to him and found me a perfect fit for it.
My husband manages to hold his own just enough to give his creator a virtual polyamorists ego boost every now and again.
Where We Are Today
More than five years down the line since our marriage, my husband and I still hold the same honesty and commitment in our relationship. We will continue to reap the benefits of Tinder.
Swipe right, especially for my husband who needs an ego boost. I am enjoying this ride for a while. So, we are happily married couples using Tinder as a tool.
*The name of the couple in the story is changed to protect the identity.