Hi, I (Sarah) am 23 and this is my story of how I lost my virginity through a man I met on Tinder – an online dating app.
Most tales I’ve heard of girls losing their virginity to a man, it is mostly filled with regrets. Because it is either with a stupid school kid or a college jerk. Not many would want to relive that memory as a happy memory. Most of them try and hide it or willing to lie about it.
I am 23 and after being single for a long time I decided to go Tinder. That’s a virtual place where you can test your grounds before really going ‘into it’. I (*Sarrah) would rate myself a 7/10 in terms of looks.
And, I am 5’6″ so not getting laid wasn’t the problem except I held it for a long time after hearing all the stories about how my friends regretted their first time.
Tinder is the buzz of the town.
And I liked how my girlfriends would often share their story of meeting this really cute guy through Tinder that otherwise they wouldn’t.
Testimony of A 23-Year-Old
I am 23 years old and I do a part-time job. By my age, most girls have had sex. In my friend circle, my girlfriends discuss their sex life and I don’t have any story to share.
So I decided to join Tinder and my only idea to be on Tinder is to have fun. So this is my tell-tale of how I lost my virginity with a man I met on Tinder.
And to be honest, I couldn’t have asked for a better ‘first time’. After a few swipes, I matched with *Mark He was a very funny and happy-go-lucky guy, he made me laugh.
He played basketball so basically he was tall. (And I love tall men because they have long penises)
After a stressful day, confiding into him became my comfort zone.
We exchanged numbers and would talk for hours on the phone. We decided to meet and it was no less than a fairy tale. He came dressed in his denim jeans, a hoodie and a cap turned backward. I wore a black skirt with a white T-shirt tucked. We drank coffee and ate cookies.
After the third or fourth time of the meeting, he asked me if I wanted to go out with him for drinks. I said yes since I consider Mark a nice friend.
We Met For Drinks
So we met on a Wednesday night, we sat down and gulped down a few glasses of wine. We talked about a lot of things, laughed through a hundred. We confronted each other on so many fronts. I confessed to him that I was a virgin and he laughed!
That moment I was furious.
That night, there was something about it. I felt sudden ease with Mark that while talking. Three hours later we asked the waiter to close our bill. We bid each other a goodnight and set off in our cars.
Just when I stopped at a red light I got a call from Mark. He told me that my car was behind his. He confessed he really liked carrying a conversation with me and asked me if I would like to carry this forward.
So, I said yes and we headed to his apartment with beers.
That night we had sex and I lost my viriginty
Yes, I lost my virginity to a man I met on Tinder. I never would have thought I would but I did, and I am not even regretful. In fact, I couldn’t have asked for a better ‘first time’. Mark had a lean sexy body. He smelled good. He handled me with care.
Of course, it pained a lot the first time and there were stains on his bed. But after losing my virginity I felt a different kind of vibe. I felt mature and happier. So Mark and I decided to continue this as a tradition for at least once a week.
It Became A Habit
It’s been eight months since my first encounter. And I haven’t really shared this with anybody else other than my best friend. But a bigger part of my first time being a good experience was that I felt ready.
After having achieved my first ‘successful’ attempt at Tinder, I swipe right more frequently and meet new faces more often. I wasn’t surprised by how forward some of the guys were on Tinder.
Twist and Dilemma
Folks, You know – what! Later I found out that this man was my cousin sister’s to be husband. Now I am in two minds –
1) I still have the hangover of that night when I lost my virginity ( It’s still so fresh in my mind and makes me wet even today)
2) I feel guilty that unintentionally this is cheating – and my cousin is going to marry a man who is constantly wandering on Tinder.
Should I tell her about it or No? Big Dilemma…What happened next – will share in my next story! Stay Tuned.
*Disclaimer: Names have been changed to protect the identity of the person