How many believe me when I say I had sex daily? Well, I did it and I have the best answer to your imaginative minds.
I know what you all must be thinking, how many men did I have it with?
Well, I had sex with not different men but one man, my husband.
Having sex for one year continuous has brought a number of desired changes in my body and my marriage.
DID I HAVE SEX ON MY PERIODS?
One mainstream question that may be prevailing in everybody’s head is if I had sex even on my periods?
Well yes, otherwise, how else did I manage to have sex for a continuous 365 days.
Let me open up about one thing ladies that we have been undermining for so long.
Sex on periods is godly!
Having sex in your periods is what most people would avoid. People stand right in their argument that it gets messy.
But once you get into it and start figuring it out in a more phased out manner, period sex can deliver better than your bedroom sex.
WHAT MADE ME DO THIS
Let me start off by explaining why I took this step and how I came to deciding on having sex for a year.
My friend Lucinda and I discussed and she recommended that I try having sex with my husband for a year. There ought to be no excuses for us for not having sex. And I was to follow the routine like following any other regime.
Like how I wouldn’t miss out on brushing my teeth or showering, having sex had to be imbibed in my life like any other task.
I was told to worship sex daily, for a year, and so I did.
SEX MOVED FROM BEDROOM TO KITCHEN
At first, I really had to drag myself for sex but three months into it we were romantic with each other all the time. We would find reasons to touch each other, pecks turned to long kisses and our bond grew stronger.
As the months passed, I started looking forward to it more and more. Our sexual innuendo crept out of the bedrooms. Then there was no room left in the house where we didn’t try it.
From the storeroom to the kitchen and the garage, we made love in every place that we deemed possible.
Our intimacy started thriving better than so many years in our marriage.
SIX MONTHS LATER
Now six months into it I felt more liberated with my body. I accepted my curves, my cellulite, and my stretch marks. Yes, I have stretch marks because I am a mother of three.
I live more freely and have come in terms of my body issues. I don’t feel ugly anymore.
Now, I stare at the mirror and instead of spiting myself, I have learned to appreciate myself.
A YEAR PASSED
Having sex for almost a year changed my perspective. It changed my outlook and made me realise that even if there are marriages that fall apart due to the absence of sex, you need to take things in your hand.
My sex life made me more mobile and more rejuvenated. I felt happier as I woke up and less stressed even while I was handling three children.
Sex for one year made me flexible and pro-active.
I didn’t have to join a gym to lose weight and come in shape. I noticed my body became naturally toned in a year by having sex daily.
The truth is we often undermine the power of sex and it can really make or break things for a couple.
When you see signs that the romance is out of marriage it is upon us to bring that back. It is whether you decide to take an extreme measure to spice up your lives. But it has to be dealt with.