Aarti Hegde

Aarti Hegde

I am Aarti Hegde and I am a writer, who believes that pen is mightier than the sword. I write about everything the 'blue dot' offers. I also write about lifestyle, especially sex. Writing about this subject always excited me (no pun intended) for a number of reasons. It's informative but also quite an entertaining read. And I hope to inform and entertain readers through my writing.

Is Your Sex Drive Higher Than Usual? We Are Helping Here

When you feel like you want to have sex more often, it doesn’t make you’re a creep or a pervert. It just makes you more human, and each human is different.

Scissor Sisters: Your Sex Guide To Often-Misunderstood World Of Lesbian Scissoring

Oooh, the classic art of love-making. Actually… scratch that. It’s not-so-classic. No one knows when, where, or by whose genius mind scissoring was invented; only that countless women with Sapphic tendencies will always be grateful for the pioneering efforts of…

‘Yes Means Yes!’ Finding A Modern Paradigm For Sexual Consent

Yes means Yes!’ Redefining sexual consent for the modern age! In these times, the notion of what constitutes consent has become fraught with tension, leaving many men anxious about the difficult ground of seduction, and the extent to which they…

Golden Showers And PEE Is Attractive-Sexy And The Kind of Stuff “I Will Do”…

Golden Showers: A lesser-known fetish that no one talks about. Is it even safe? So, who still remembers Trump and his ‘pee sex’ controversy from 2017? Not much of a controversy if it’s true; but you know where I’m going…

Threesome Sexual Positions — Make it Three’s a Charm, Not Three’s a Crowd

You may be thinking of adding a new addition to the mix. We aren’t talking about a baby, or ingredients with which to put a new spin on a classic dish. We’re talking about a threesome: the one you’ve been…

New To BDSM? The Beginner’s Guide To Exploring The Kinky Art

Yes, many of us would like to think we’re open-minded, progressive individuals. Maybe we are. But, are we really, if we live inside a clean little bubble when it comes to coitus? Although there’s nothing wrong with being old-school, for…

Thinking Of Threesome? All The Ins & Outs

Threesome Etiquette: Things to Know Before Diving Into One (Read: Two) Being in a threesome is every person’s fantasy. (Its on my sexual bucket list, too. Not going to lie!) And, if you and your partner have decided to involve…

Outercourse Is The New Intercourse And How To Make It A Part Of Your Sexual Activity

Your Know-It-All Guide to Outercourse You’ve heard about safe sex. (Hope you’re practising safe sex as well). And it’s safe to say you know about intercourse; but have you practised or heard about outercourse? You may have indulged in outercourse…

Queefed? Embarrassed Much? Some Things To Know About This Awkward Experience

Queefing — “What’s that sound? Wait… did it just come out of my vagina?” Raise your hands if you’ve experienced this awkwardness in the middle of sex, or while working out. Although we can’t see your hands aloft, know that we…

The Language Of Sexual Identity — All The Terms You Need To Know

Straight… lesbian… gay…as times have progressed, what were once the most popular and conventional terms for sexual orientation or romantic preferences have now become more nuanced. It’s not just black and white anymore. It’s a colourful spectrum. This means that…